TAKE A TURN AT A FIX PATTERN

   When I brainstorm with friend just simply to create a story, given the start and end of it. Everyone will want to know what will the story base on, or what will make sense, start planning it step by step from A to Z. This I feel is because people want to hold on to a certain things or belief so that they feel safe. Can we say religion is the same as there is a thing there for you to rely on to hold on to so you feel safe.

   Why not take a leap and see what faith brings to you. Start writing a story from the middle, work your way back or forward. Not that no one have try it, even movie, Star Wars, it start showing the ending than only the show the origin of the story. Jump into a story, regardless of where you land, feel the moment and than only work your way around to find out how it start or end. Try open a book and read the middle pages first than only read the rest of it.

   To follow a certain pattern and live for so long that life is getting boring. Try something different for a change. Walk into a room without knowing what is in there, write a story by placing pieces of story around and only link it afterward. Try not to follow a certain set of pattern to do or work out something, forget bout the step or 1,2,3 and start going in through 5,99,76 . 

   Even the Man of Steel movie is doing something different. Not about the red underwear but the way the movie was. show the present and cut into parts and pieces of the history of superman was he was young. This movie that does not follow from young till he grow up pattern is a hit. Try not to follow a set of pattern and experience the unexpected event that follow.  

IMPRESS THE UN-IMPRESSIONABLE

   Try as hard as you want to impress others, the thing about impressing another person is not how good you are or how well you prepare. The bottom line to impress others is still down to how the other person think and look at you. We always think we can impress other people and set a good image for our self, but the truth is we can't really do it as we our self will complain and talk about those people that try hard to impress us or people around us. You yourself judge others and you think others would not judge you and accept what you tell them. 

   You may hear people give advice like be yourself, do not try too hard to impress or it will back fire or be natural. If you ask me for advice, well I will answer you go and amaze them. Maybe I will enjoy the after show and see how bad it gets or you may come and thank me for a great advice. When you go out and meet people, if they choose to accept you and done you have won them over even before you do your things, but if they have reject you from the start, pull out all your tricks and still it does not work.

   The world is full of drama any way. So why not put on a good show, and see what the outcome may turn out to be. What is life if you do not take chances, what is life if you do not have fun, what is life if every thing is pre-set. Just try and be surprise. If what you do turn out bad and did not impress the others, you can laugh it away like a joke, but if it does work out and people are impress, take it as a great glory victory, celebrate and be proud.

DARE TO BE DIFFERENT

   The movie Fast Furious 6 as expected is another hit. But at the end of the movie, they have the preview of the next movie with Jason Statham as the villain. This is something that is not expected where Jason is always the hero in the movie that he act in, people start to comment bout the movie saying they could not accept it. Why not, why can't Jason be a villain for once. What if he is good acting as a villain, it may even spice up the movie and take it to a greater height.
   Comment I heard are like, people saying they cannot accept Jason as villain, how uneasy they feel about it. this is just merely because you yourself limit your own thought and believe. You get use to something that way, you dare not try or accept any changes or follow other path.
   When you have try using one way to get to a place, you will tense to follow the same way all the time. If you dare to try a different route, you may find a shorter way, a faster way or a more interesting way to your destination. You may not know till you try, you need to accept and try other alternative.
   I feel, this is not just a simple task of try a new thing, but is whether you dare to be different or not. Think more creatively, do not just live in a dull world. Try and experience the world with limitless imagination. Try to look at the same thing you have been looking at for the past 10 or 20 years differently. Look closer, look further, look at it from a different angle, flush out the old memory of it and review it again with a different prospective and see what greatness follow after that.

A GOOD LESSON TO SELF

   I failed a subject last semester. I felt sad, who doesn't. When I told my friends, there are all sort of feedback. Most of them will ask me to submit for appeal against the result. But I have a thought in my mind, why did I fail? Is a big question mark in my head. I went and consult my lecturer and he told me that I am not prepared for the final, and I am not the only person fail but a high percentage of people did fail.
   I meet up with a few people and most people will put the blame on others on how they fail. I got answer like he is too strict with the marking, there are no tips, question too hard and it goes on. I have a though again, what if we did prepare well, study hard and smart, read up more and get yourself into it, no matter what question we will find the answer to it and we may not fail or even score an A+. I am retaking this paper and intent to do better.
   When something bad happen to us, we will blame it on the whole world. We can even convince our self that is never our fault and we are not to blame. My thought is, why don't we take a deep breath and sit back, calm our self down. Think deeply, if we can do better, if we have been more prepare, if we are ready, will the unfortunate event happen on us.
   I know we can not be prepare for everything that is coming at us, but we can always prepare our self so that we would not fall down that hard. We should not blame it on others when things happen, we just need to remind our self that we need to do better next time.